I (Lauren) found these websites on Maine.gove for dad's:
http://www.dadsadventure.com/ This website has many things for first time dads filled with information, articles, video's, a magazine and an ask a dad part.
http://www.fathers.com/ National Center for fathers
http://www.fathersnetwork.org/ for dads who are raising children with specail health care needs and developmental disabilites.
http://www.slowlane.com/ great site for stay at home dads